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How I “Manifested” $20,000 in Free Luxury Travel – It’s Not Law of Attraction

Ever feel like you’ve fought so long for control, command, money, reputation, love and pleasure?

Maybe you have a dozen different trainings, hired a ton of coaches, and spent hours in therapy in your attempt to “get there”, and yet, your creations, your work, maybe your love life and bank account is far from satisfying.

The truth is that you can not get there from the “old ways” of constant self-improvement, energy management and doing doing doing or total procrastination…or you would have!


You must activate the Greatness Codes – embrace a deep, dark potency, a stillness where you can attune and INSTANTLY create, and create the unimaginable too.

I’m not talking about healing our Shadow or the never ending self-help/ transformational journey.

I’m talking about embracing the portal of what you want so deeply, of who you are so deeply and the identity you have to give up to let that through (which is so fucking liberating you will wonder why you clung so hard for so long).

I know because I have done it.



In this place I’ve created unreasonable results:

 

  • $20,000+ in a 30-day period in free 5-Star luxury travel
  • instant national news coverage (no PR company or pitching)
  • significant profits in the sale of real estate properties
  • even a weight shift.



The mind can’t make sense it. But, all of this is not coming from the mind.


Old Keys Won't Open New Doors

It also did NOT come from constant management of thoughts and energy.


I did NOT line up to a frequency as Law of Attraction teaches.

I did NOT have a vision board.

I did NOT have to heal all my ancestral wounds, go to a therapist for a decade  or align my chakras.

I did NOT wait for “Divine timing”.

I did not follow the old middle class values of “hard work”, “playing it safe” and being a “good girl”, the same values many are clinging too during the pandemic.

 

The truth is new Code of Greatness are dropping.


The old “matrix” of the Light worker, the over management of the mind and the energy body, and the ever constant feedback loop is dead.


It is a time of INSTANT ACTIVATION.


…Of accessing what is ALREADY in your body.


How I Did This

All of the results above came from a deeper place of power within me.
(And you can have the same).

It came from the body, specifically the Dark Feminine body that is the birthplace of all delicious things in the Universe.  

 

The bonus us I know no longer care:

 

  • what people think of me,
  • if I am “too much”,
  • if I am too sexual
  • if I am too demanding.


And, ironically all I desired started showing up. With no management. With no long timeline. With no matching frequency.


Portal Jumping – “Manifestation is Dead”

Here's the crux friend – this has nothing to do with manifesting – not money, not love, not success.

I am no longer a match for a future vision.

I don't constantly manage my energy.

I do something far more fun, more powerful, and more magical.

I activate. I am activated.
While you’ve been taught to be a match for money or whatever you desire in the moment, I’m here to show you how to unpack the moment to reveal the hidden codes within – ones that you can only get to when you actually DITCH the vision you have for money – because only then can you go silent and still enough to see it. To see the unimaginable.

 

I can take the codes spinning in the current moment – in EVERY moment – and fashion them into cash or 5 star travel or whatever you want.

 

Because of that, I become a vessel for divine chaos in the moment… from Nothing.

 

True creation. There’s no upkeep or maintenance of my energy here.

It’s portal living. And it’s now ready to land for you too.

Want this?




I see the greatness codes in you!

Let's activate them.

Shasta

What to Do When He’s A Downer – How To [Video] Ask Shasta Blog

As a spiritually focused woman you are expanding, learning and growing.

You may need to "lead" him down the path...
You may need to “lead” him down the path…

You are finally on a path that feels really good, and of course you want to share that with everyone you meet and most importantly with your partner.

But what if he is “not on the path”?

What if he is in fact resistant to your growth, or resisting his own?

How do you stay focused on your own expansion and not let him bring you down with his complaining, whining and general jerk face behavior?

This week’s Ask Shasta Blog answers the question that thousands if not millions of spiritual women are asking:

“What do I do when he’s a major downer?”

Shasta’s video post includes four specific steps that you can do now to keep your energy clear, remain on your path with ease and not feel so damn annoyed that he’s just not getting it!

Watch ⇒ What To Do When He’s A Major Downer 

Learn four clear and easy steps to “protect” your energy as a woman.

Your Thoughts? 

We are also continuing the circle on how to create conscious relationships for spiritual women over at the The Rich Relationship Secrets Facebook page.

Share your insights, ahas, and break-throughs on The Rich Relationship Secrets Facebook Group and meet other like-minded sisters who are dedicated to changing their own lives and the world by bringing their Goddess Nature & Divine Essence  to their relationships.

Big love,

Shasta

ABOUT SHASTA: Best-selling author, award winning teacher and down-to-earth Canadian girl, Shasta Townsend is your “marriage mechanic” who helps you manifest your relationship dream by teaching you how to apply Universal Laws to create a rich and satisfying relationship, no matter what AND the practical day-to-day tools that can change everything! Shasta is one of the first teachers to combine the teachings of Quantum Physics, Law of Attraction, Spiritual Psychology and good old common sense in the area of marriage, love and intimacy. Her many student’s success speak to the power of her work, and her own story is one of amazing “miracles”. She is here as the helping hand you've been seeking. www.shastatownsend.com

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For Better or Worse, Hopefully Better – Men & Money Magic

Although we are wise and powerful Goddesses who know how to create abundance and manage money in our own lives, money in marriage can be a whole other cauldron of creation.

Our relationship to men and money requires real mastery. It also requires that we heal our own money gremlins as money issues are one of the top reasons couples divorce and usually the number one thing couples argue over.

Money is also the number one reason most of us feel unsafe in the world.

And let’s face it most spiritually focused women don’t want to talk about money at all given the general weirdness we have about money in the spiritual community, and in our world.

“We just don’t talk about it – money that is. I have my secrets for sure about things I’ve spent money on, savings I have that he doesn’t know about, and I am sure he does too. My shame about money is a huge shadow in my marriage,” said one of my Rich and Satisfying Relationship Blueprint students in a recent coaching conversation.

Maybe you resonate with this. Or maybe you have tried talking to your spouse about money and it becomes a shouting match and a lot of finger pointing so both of you would rather forget about it.

As I said to my dear student, we can’t keep avoiding the money discussion and have a relationship of true ease and harmony – with money, with our lover or with ourselves.

Money issues can be a shadow that hangs over our relationship and even our sense of safety, trust and wellbeing as women.

Before Ian and I learned how to really talk about money in a collaborative and heart-felt way, I remember feeling a sense of distrust and at times even feeling unsafe. I was worried that he was over spending. I feared he did not have the same values around paying down debt and finally that I was doing all the work to create something and he was just having a good old time at my expense.

Ian & I got on the same page about money and manifested a spot on a popular HGTV show and an 80k kitchen reno for a fraction of the price.
Ian & I got on the same page about money and manifested a spot on a popular HGTV show and an $80k kitchen reno for a fraction of the price thus drastically increasing the value of our home!

These were my money blocks or fears speaking to me, and they were magnified because I did not have the skills to heal them or share them, AND 'cause I was in a relationship!

All that unspoken fear is a breeding ground for misunderstanding and discontent as well as lies, covert cover-ups and shame.

The wonderful, juicy thing about relationships is that we are given a clear reflection of what we need to heal so that we may be free to truly embody ourselves as whole, radiant and abundant women.

I was grateful to be “forced” to face the gremlins of fear about money.  My marriage gave me the opportunity to “heal” my money stuff and truly embrace the abundance teachings I so loved. It also meant Ian and I could step into powerful creating as a couple.

When I shifted, Ian shifted his money blocks and habits too so that we are now on the same page and creating more abundance together. We could NOT have done this without releasing our individual money gremlins, and then having the willingness to speak to the somewhat uncomfortable tension around money in our marriage.

So before you even try talking to your partner about money, sit with some reflections on your own money blocks and call in the TRUTH of your abundance too…

Healing the Money Gremlins Reflection Practice

Gently consider:

What is the “story” I have about money?  Is it a necessary evil, something that causes you great stress or a form of Divine grace and bounty?

 

What is the worst “memory” I have about money? Is this still affecting me in some way? (For example: When I was about 10-years-old my parents lost their house because they could not pay the mortgage. I remember seeing my Mom crying on the stairs and saying, “We can never get ahead. We will be broke forever.” It was terrifying and I can still feel that fear creep in my DNA at times.)

 

What would I do/be/create if money was not an issue at all?  What would my partner say he wanted to do/be/create too?

 

If I drop into my Essence or Divine self, what does She tell me is really true about money? About my man?  About my desire to create?

 

Share your insights, ahas, and break-throughs on The Rich Relationship Secrets Facebook Group.

Stay tuned…next week as I share How to Talk to Your Husband About Money Without a Meltdown.

Big love,

Shasta

ABOUT SHASTA: Best-selling author, award winning teacher and down-to-earth Canadian girl, Shasta Townsend is your “marriage mechanic” who helps you manifest your relationship dream by teaching you how to apply Universal Laws to create a rich and satisfying relationship, no matter what AND the practical day-to-day tools that can change everything! Shasta is one of the first teachers to combine the teachings of Quantum Physics, Law of Attraction, Spiritual Psychology and good old common sense in the area of marriage, love and intimacy. Her many student’s success speak to the power of her work, and her own story is one of amazing “miracles”. She is here as the helping hand you've been seeking. www.shastatownsend.com

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Love and Law of Attraction – Using Universal Laws to Create Miracles In Your Marriage

If you have heard of Law of Attraction or know even a little bit about Quantum Physics or metaphysics, you know that what is showing up in your reality is responding to your state of being…even your husband.

The Law of Attraction states that every positive or negative event that happened to you was attract by you. You may have attracted it with intention or you may have attracted it unconsciously, but you attracted or created it all the same.

You might be saying: “Shasta, I would not ask for the type of jerk face behavior I am getting from my husband.”

Of course consciously you would not ask for this but you have a STORY or a set of beliefs about your husband that is causing him to show up exactly as you expect. You are emitting a certain signal just like a radio tower and you can’t get anything back but that same signal. But when change our story or our signal, our attraction point changes, this means our reality changes. If you understand this, your reality including your relationship reality shifts and FAST! I did the very same in my relationship and literally went from near divorce to deep connection and healing in a very short time.

You might be saying: “Shasta, I would not ask for the type of jerk face behavior I am getting from my husband.” Of course consciously you would not ask for this but you have a STORY or a set of beliefs about your husband that is causing him to show up exactly as you expect.

 

So here are three simple steps that you can take right now and start using the Law of Attraction effectively in your relationship.Make these steps apart of your new daily dedication and get ready for all the positive changes that are about to come your way. You might even feel it is miraculous.

  1. Understand Law of Attraction and Accept That It Can Work For You Or Against You By How You BE

Accept that you are creating your reality – that Law of Attraction is bringing you exactly what you are asking for, even unconsciously. Moreover, accept and understand that Law of Attraction is responding to your feeling or BEING state. If you are in the BEing state of anger or resentment you canNOT receive or manifest love and connection. It is literally not possible as the frequencies do not match up. You could blame your spouse or you could understand and accept that you are getting exactly what you are giving energetically.

We may expect our husband to give us love and support but we are actually asking for the opposite by how we BE. We have to be willing to change our ‘in-here’ state in order for the ‘out-there’ reality to show up as we want.

Law of Attraction is at play at ALL times so to accept that you have the power to create, change and shift reality by how you BE and to be willing to BE different even in the face of what has happened, what is happening and the story you have about your partner now is to allow Law of Attraction to work for you.

  1. Examine the Story and Notice the Signal You are Sending Out

As I said you have a “story” or belief about your husband, and I know that he has given you a LOT of evidence to validate this story so it can feel very true.

When my husband, Ian and I were on the verge of divorce, I had a story that he was a reactive a-hole, and he gave me a lot of evidence including massive blow-ups, throwing his wedding ring on the floor and marching out of the house, and withdrawn, I’m a fortress behavior. As much as a I tried to get through, as much as we attempted to talk and as much as a I threatened leaving, he was just not getting it. And my story about him got even stronger – “See he is a jerk face, a-hole!”

And talking to my friends only validated my story about him. They were most keen to agree with me and to encourage me to leave, but that did not feel good. AND I also knew that I was in love with him and that there was a beautiful being within him.

So I began to really accept the idea that I was at least a little responsible for what was appearing in my life including his behavior, and I decided to really accept Law of Attraction was at play as I said in Step #1. Then I started to examine the beliefs and stories I had about him. This is Step #2.

During my worst challenge with my husband I asked myself what I was saying YES to by continuing to hold onto my story about him. I realized that this story wasn’t what I really wanted at all, but I was caught up in it and my hurt and my pain. Once I was willing to let go of that story, things changed fast AND I felt better immediately.

Consider all the stories you have about your partner. I know that the stories, beliefs and hurts we have about our partner can be doozies and it can feel like you are giving in or making this easy for him by doing this, but I know you want things to shift quickly and to truly take back your power.

With Ian, I began to see that I certainly had a clear story that he was over-reactive, angry, and mean. And I probably, had many unconscious beliefs about him, about men and even about marriage that were influencing my ‘in-here’ state that was certainly creating my ‘out- there’ reality.

Conscious and unconscious stories and beliefs are absolutely influencing us at all times AND thus creating our reality. So to make bring them into our conscious awareness is to take back our power – one by making the unexamined, now examined AND to consciously ask if this is a story we want to continue to make true.

I knew if I continue to nurse these stories about my husband, they would continue to show up and continue to be true, and that was a reality I no longer wanted.

  1. Be Clear on What You DO Want and Start Telling That Story

It’s that simple and yet, that is the BIG practice.

After I considered all the stories I had been trapped within that I knew were causing so much anger, tension and disconnect between us, I did the BOLD thing so very few people ever do – I asked myself what I really wanted AND what was really true. In other words, what story did I want to really tell and nurture?

Was it REALLY true that Ian was an over-reactive a-hole all the time? Of course not. There was a much bigger truth. He has a huge heart, is struggling with some thing and is feeling as insecure and frustrated as I am, but he wants to be in this fully.

What did I want to tell myself about him and our marriage? Could I find things to truly love and appreciate about him? I knew that the more I focused on something the bigger it became. So I looked for things to appreciate, even if they were the smallest things…

As I began to tell a different story about him and us, it created way more ease, love and even the space of forgiveness in me, which meant I was BEING different.

He felt this.

I didn’t tell him I was doing this. I just did it, but because I was consciously shifting my “in-here” state, my BEING was different and my “out-there” reality responded to this.

I no longer felt so triggered, victimized and angry. I was willing to hold a witness state AND a powerful creative state which meant I wasn’t bracing for him to have a meltdown. I was not expecting Mr.Jerkface; instead I created a space and an invitation for him to show up in his power and love. And he did.

Very shortly after I began to consciously examine my stories and shift my way of BEING, he opened up and told me how vulnerable he felt. This fear, he said, caused him to want to defend, pull away and shut down. He knew he was not showing up as the man he wanted to be or that I needed, but he had felt trapped in his fear. He was now feeling more aware and willing to work through that.

I am sure my jaw dropped. In all the years of trying to talk about it, the wasted hours of counseling of rehashing the same old shit and my prodding to get him to open up, had not worked at all. I truly believe that as I held the space for him in my mind as a loving, open and kind man, that reality slid into place. He finally got it!!

This now meant we had a common ground and a solid heart-felt connection for us to do some deep work. We began to heal the wounds between and recreating a rich marriage using a clear 7-step blueprint that I now teach and share with others.

So don’t take my word for it…try this as an experiment today. Share your experiences, comments and insight in the comments below…

Love,

Shasta

ABOUT SHASTA: Best-selling author, award winning teacher and down-to-earth Canadian girl, Shasta Townsend is your “marriage mechanic” who helps you manifest your relationship dream by teaching you how to apply Universal Laws to create a rich and satisfying relationship, no matter what AND the practical day-to-day tools that can change everything! Shasta is one of the first teachers to combine the teachings of Quantum Physics, Law of Attraction, Spiritual Psychology and good old common sense in the area of marriage, love and intimacy. Her many student’s success speak to the power of her work, and her own story is one of amazing “miracles”. She is here as the helping hand you've been seeking. www.shastatownsend.com

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Do You Dare to Ask for Great Love?

“I just thought I was one of those people who would not have a great LOVE in their life. I have a great career and great kids, but did not think my marriage could be satisfying and fulfilling. I was afraid in fact to hope for a truly great romance and close connection as I did not want to be disappointed.” 

A coaching client recently said these words to me, and it reminded me how often we are afraid to ask for more not only in our marriage but often in other aspects of our life.  We dare not dream bigger as we don't want to be disappointed when those dreams don't come true.  We keep it small and safe and to be fair, we don't always have great models in our world of love. There are few great courses and tools that show us how WE can create a loving, satisfying and deeply rewarding relationship. Many of us never learned the tools to create a relationship that is soul-fulfilling and delightful for the mind and body so we just settle with “fine”.

As I wrote in a recent post, What Ok is costing you in your marriage: Perhaps connection, passion and feeling truly loved does sound like a fairy tale.

Maybe we feel that our marriage is “fine” or “ok” and have never even considered that it could be sensational. BUT…

Fine is costing us.

Struggle is costing us.

“Ok” is costing us as women.

I know that even one more day of NOT feeling the love and connection we long for is one more day we will never get back.

So the first step is to ask yourself a simple question:

 

“What am I longing for?  

or

What do I really want?”

 

One of the hardest questions to answer is…”What do I really want?”

It’s a question that few will ask in their lifetime with any level of depth.

It is a confronting question, because it requires coming face to face with failure, judgment, the state of your self-worth, baggage, negative beliefs and all the reasons WHY you don’t have it yet.

Many of us have also been told not to dream too big so we have not dared to ask or even consider what we truly want at a soul satisfying level. We may also believe that we can live with “Fine” or “Ok”. But the truth is that “fine” is an energetic leak and drain. It literally can suck the life out of us. We push down or push away our dreams and this not only takes a lot of energy, it creates a heaviness, resentment and pool of unmet potential within us.

In the realm of love and relationship we may not know what we want OR we may believe it is not possible. We may have no clue what a dream relationship looks like. We may not have a lot of great models that inspire us, or we simply may have never asked our self, “What do I want in my marriage, my intimate relationship, my sexual life?”

It may even feel scary or worrisome. We may fear we will upset the apple cart so to speak, or worse that we may never be able to attain it so we believe at some level that it is better to continue on with “Fine”. Not daring to dream means we can never have unmet dreams.

Though we are all free to choose in this life, we CAN dream and have those dreams met. It starts by uncovering what we really want FIRST and daring to dream it. Only then can we begin to call in the forces of the universe, our own manifesting and creative power and the resources to make it happen.

You gotta start with your dream!  Consider it like writing a letter to Santa or the fairies of the universe, and don't allow any “ya buts” in.

 

Ask yourself the most powerful question:

“What do I long for? What do I really want?”

 

And like my daring, courageous coaching client, be willing to stand in the place of hope, possibility and your own potential.

Big love,

Shasta

ABOUT SHASTA: Best-selling author, award winning teacher and down-to-earth Canadian girl, Shasta Townsend is your “marriage mechanic” who helps you manifest your relationship dream by teaching you how to apply Universal Laws to create a rich and satisfying relationship, no matter what AND the practical day-to-day tools that can change everything! Shasta is one of the first teachers to combine the teachings of Quantum Physics, Law of Attraction, Spiritual Psychology and good old common sense in the area of marriage, love and intimacy. Her many student’s success speak to the power of her work, and her own story is one of amazing “miracles”. She is here as the helping hand you've been seeking. www.shastatownsend.com

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